Monday, November 30, 2020

A Review of Grounded Spirituality by Jeff Brown

This gives a glimpse into Grounded Spirituality, a book
which you may also find helpful and empowering.
Molly 
 

In this courageous, leading-edge book, author Jeff Brown exposes the fragmented, ungrounded and dissociative notions of spirituality that have imprisoned our consciousness and obstructed our awakening since time immemorial. In his cuttingly straight style, he reveals that much of what we have been calling "spirituality" is actually a patriarchal, emotionally bereft construct that perpetuates our self-avoidance. He then proves to uspoint by brilliant point--that true spirituality is a whole-being awakening, one that wonderfully embraces our entire human experience. In many spiritual practices, emotional healing processes (blockage clearing, issue resolution, the working through of the shadow) have been bypassed and trivialized, as though the 'real' spiritual realm exists independent of our feelings. Brown makes no distinction between these realms, revealing that emotional maturity and spiritual maturity are synonymous, and that any spirituality that desacralizes our selfhood is not enlightenment at all. It is a bypass of that which is fundamentally human: our feelings, our stories, our bodies, our relationships with each other and the earth that houses us. In his words, "Detachment is a toolnot a life. If you can't find your transformation in the village, you haven't found a thing." 
 
...Hands-on exercises are dispersed throughoutproviding readers with a direct experience of a new, inclusive model. Here the author lays down the tracks for a more balanced, heartfelt and relational spiritualityone that leaves us "enrealed," integrated, and purposeful. Not awakened, but awakening. Not escaping our humanness, but finding our meaning and spirituality deep within it. Out of the ashes of old ways of being, a bright new paradigm comes into view. An inclusive, self-honoring, and healing spiritual perspective that will be a welcomed relief for any seeker.
 
In the author's words, "It's one thing to briefly detach from story in the hopes of gaining a different perspectiveit's quite another to deny our storied roots altogether. What will we stand in, then? At a time when our personal stories have been shamed and shunned in the spiritual community, it is all the more imperative to revive them and makes luminous their sacred, transformative properties. The past is not an illusion, as many would suggest. It is the ground of our being, the karmic field for our soul's transformationthe mystery that threads right through our history. Story is where we come from. Story is what roots us in the present. Story is how we arrive at the next place intact. A spirituality without story is like a body without breath. Dead to the world."
 
What we need now are models that lead us back into our hearts, into relatedness, into a deep and reverential regard for the self's journey through time. In this magnificent book, Brown endeavors to hearticulate one such path, reminding us that heaven on earth begins and ends deep within the recesses of our enlivened humanness. At long last, we can lay down our weary heads, burdened by the impossibility of transcending our human experience. Back to our roots, back into our bodies, back into all that makes us marvelously human. Home at last. 
 
 
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The QAnon Conspiracy Is Fake. The Harm It's Doing To Child Welfare Groups Is Real

An excellent piece. And this touches me deeply as both a now retired caseworker with Child Welfare who's worked directly with trafficked kids, and also as a human being who is close with some who've been swept up in QAnon.

I also want to acknowledge my gratitude to Jeff Brown and the ways that Jeff's work has nailed how it is that, not just the extreme fundamentalist religious right, but also how it is that New Age communities — two different faces of ungrounded spirituality — can be pulled into cults like QAnon. Very sad. And dangerous. Which is also another reason why I recommend Jeff Brown's book Grounded Spirituality: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40007137-grounded-spirituality
 
May we all embody a profound commitment to truth and cultivate the deep skills of discernment and a grounded spirituality which empowers us to not be pulled into harmful beliefs, conspiracy theories, and disinformation which fuels suffering rather than serves to alleviate it. — Molly
 

QAnon has hijacked the name of a real organization trying to save children 

Child welfare organizations for months have felt the full weight of the coronavirus pandemic, navigating concerns about unreported abuse and ensuring their resources are available to at-risk children.

But now, deeper into the outbreak, a new challenge is emerging that's complicating their critical outreach efforts: the QAnon conspiracy theory.
The most basic QAnon belief -- entirely divorced from reality -- casts President Donald Trump as the hero in a fight against the "deep state" and a sinister cabal of Democratic politicians and celebrities who abuse children. It features an anonymous government insider called "Q" who purportedly shares secret information about that fight via cryptic online posts.
And it's the behavior of those who follow the conspiracy theory -- their supposed efforts to help abused children -- that's putting an increasing strain on the resources of actual child welfare groups.
The problem has become so severe that one such organization, Childhelp, says it had to set up an auto-response message on its crisis hotline to filter out QAnon callers after their name appeared in a QAnon meme.
"If you have a hotline counselor who is taking time to speak to someone discussing a debunked conspiracy theory, there may be a child holding on the next line," Daphne Young, chief communications officer for Childhelp, told CNN.
The rise of QAnon -- and its movement off the internet and onto the hotlines of child welfare organizations -- marks just the latest wrinkle in the effort to protect at-risk children during the pandemic.
Figures provided to CNN from states across the country in the early months of the outbreak showed considerable drops in child abuse reports as social distancing measures kept kids out of school. While that would usually be welcome news, experts say the decline might really mean more cases are going unnoticed.
As a result, welfare groups like Childhelp have shouldered the burden of making themselves increasingly available for assistance, especially given the muted response from the US Department of Education.
But now the QAnon conspiracy theory is further straining their efforts, and Young says the damage is far more corrosive than people realize.
Beyond the calls to their hotline, Young explains that QAnon does "psychic damage to our work, which is the crying wolf phenomenon."
"If you get people constantly crying about abuse day in and day out on social media that is not real -- that is, everybody in Hollywood is part of a mass cabal drinking the blood of children, which is literally one of the conspiracy theories, drinking from their adrenal glands to stay young -- this madness drowns out a child asking for help, a parent that needs resources," she said.
"It drowns out anyone that's a survivor who is trying to get in touch with us, and it's not only 'cries wolf,' but I think that it also gives -- in a strange way -- it gives predators a little protection, because if everybody's crying abuse, then maybe the guy down the street didn't do it either."
That message has been echoed by other child welfare groups, which have become increasingly vocal with concerns that QAnon supporters are blurring the difference between their conspiracy theories and the work of real welfare and advocacy organizations.
The KidSafe Foundation, which aims to protect children from sexual abuse and trauma, now boasts a forceful statement on its website deriding QAnon promoters as "parasites" trying to "hijack the good names of organizations leading the fight" against real abuse.
"To grow their footprint, gain credibility, and spread misinformation, they associate their message of hate and bigotry with well-known, well-regarded organizations -- specifically those working to end child sexual abuse and sex trafficking. That strategy threatens to diminish our identities, tarnish our reputations and harm our good works," the statement says.
Cherie Benjoseph, the chief program officer and co-founder of the foundation, separately told CNN that the rise of QAnon has become especially problematic because people are already "reluctant enough to accept the reality of child sexual abuse without being driven away by QAnon's despicable presence."
In one particularly notable show of force, more than 100 anti-trafficking and child welfare organizations published an open letter warning of the dangers that QAnon posed to their work.
"On behalf of an underfunded and nonpartisan field dedicated to ending this horrific form of exploitation and abuse and helping those who have survived it, we urge you to engage real needs rather than politically motivated and profoundly dangerous narratives that harm the very people who they claim to be speaking for -- victims, survivors, children, families and vulnerable communities," the October letter said.
But even with considerable pushback from reputable groups, the conspiracy theory has proved to have a unique staying power -- in part because of buy-in from some parts of the GOP.
Nearly two dozen Republicans across the country who have engaged with the conspiracy theory appeared on the ballot this month, and some even prevailed.
Marjorie Taylor Greene, a Republican businesswoman known for espousing QAnon conspiracy theories, won her US House race to represent northwest Georgia. And Republican Lauren Boebert, who has also engaged with the conspiracy theory, captured Colorado's 3rd Congressional District.
Greene called "Q," the anonymous central figure in the conspiracy theory, a "patriot" in a 2017 Facebook video that has since been deleted, and Boebert said on a YouTube show in May that she hopes QAnon is real, "because it only means that America is getting stronger and better, and people are returning to conservative values."
A spokesperson for Greene declined to comment on her support for the conspiracy theory, and Boebert's campaign did not return CNN's request for comment. Boebert has previously said she was not a follower of the movement and her campaign has worked to distance her from the conspiracy theorists. After her primary win, Greene walked back her support and said the QAnon candidate label "doesn't represent me."
The President has similarly refused to disavow the conspiracy theory. During an NBC News town hall last month, Trump said he only knows that QAnon is "very much against pedophilia" and he agrees with that sentiment.
That kind of national exposure complicates nearly every aspect of real child welfare outreach, including organizations that focus on the crucial education and training components.
Some have already been afflicted.
Katelyn Brewer, the president and CEO of Darkness to Light -- a child sexual abuse prevention group with a slate of training courses -- told CNN that she had a board member resign after their name became attached to a QAnon conspiracy theory and they became concerned about the organization being dragged into it as well.
"Part of the impetus of that resignation was that things were threatening. My name and Darkness to Light's name was starting to be brought into the sort of conspiracy conversations," Brewer said.
"And so that board member said, 'You know, it's hard enough dealing with this for myself. I don't want to bring in an organization I love and that's been doing good work for 20 years into this.'"
"And it was devastating," Brewer continued. "That board member was -- quite frankly, still remains -- an incredibly dedicated lifelong commitment to child protection."
Darkness to Light hasn't incorporated QAnon education into its training because, as Brewer explains, it doesn't want to "give credit to this conspiracy."
"We've had a couple of conversations about it internally and when it first sort of all came to a head, what, five months ago, we definitely talked about whether or not to say something and we did see other organizations release statements," she said.
"At Darkness to Light we have a number of corporate values, but one of them is to honor the voice of victims and survivors. And we did not feel that we were standing true to ourselves if we sort of wrapped ourselves up in the conversation around QAnon, because it doesn't honor the voice of victims and survivors."
The concern now centers on how long QAnon will be around for, and what it will take to recover from the damage it's already done.
Victor Vieth, the director of research and education at the Zero Abuse Project, told CNN that it had taken decades for the field to recuperate from a set of conspiracy theories about satanic cults and child abuse that had gained traction in the 1980s.
"For 20-some years we have been fighting back against that myth and we have made great, great progress. We've got over 900 accredited children's advocacy centers. We have lifted the bar responding to all forms of trauma treatment. We know what is an evidence-based approach to preventing it," he said.
"We know what is an evidence-based approach for interviewing a child. We know what is an evidence-based approach for preparing a child for court. And what's a best practice for securing a conviction. Now, almost overnight because of the growth of conspiracy, we're back at square one."
For Young, it's clear that reprieve from the conspiracy theory will start only when people realize the correlation between spreading it online and the harm it brings to at-risk children.
"If there was any message I could give to somebody who's sort of wrapped up on these online forums, it's that your fight against disinformation would be a fight against child sexual abuse," she said.
"You fighting this stuff and not sharing it and not sending it around -- if that's the least you could do is simply not participate in it -- you would be helping the actual folks that are fighting child sexual abuse rather than sharing this or helping to pour gas on the fire."

Sunday, November 29, 2020

Olivia Marie: Psalm of Gratitude

This powerful, wise, and beautiful prayer was written on Thanksgiving Day by my longtime sister and dear friend, Olivia Oso. A deep and loving gift. Hands clasped, deep bow of gratitude for so very much... Molly

"The Blessing Way", cc Olivia Marie

Psalm of Gratitude 


Raising my eyes east toward the rising sun, I sing out to the Morning star and welcome a new day.

Grateful for the Sun,

For the gift of Light,

For the Holy fire,

And the beginning of rest of my life.


I sing the old songs of ancient ancestors and I remember those who walked on...upon this earth before me.  I call out to the eagle spirit and I give thanks for all winged-ones.


I turn to the south, towards my family, my communities, and I remember the Loved ones of my Heart.

I am grateful for the earth and all my relations.

I sing praise to to Pachamama, Unci Maka...Beloved Mother.

I call out to the Grandmothers,

Asking Her for guidance.

I send out prayers to all the Spirits,

For all beings and I say "Pilamaya".


I am grateful for the standing ones,

for the Sacred Tree of Life.

My heart says, Thank you!

for my shelter, my clothing, my food...

My Breath.


I sing out to the four-leggeds...

grateful that they help me remember my wild nature 

and my connection to the animal kingdom.


I pray for all the two-leggeds across the lands and seas...  remembering our sacred hoop of life.

I especially remember the indigenous relatives from the four winds and how they lived in right relationship with the land.  

I honor all the the First Nation people of this place where I live now live... for the Multnomah, Chinook, Clackamath, Klamath and Piyute and so many more... whose territory we now occupy.  I ask for their forgiveness for the wrongs which were inflected upon them and their culture.  


I turn to the West and give thanks for holy sacred waters...

for the rivers, lakes, oceans that bless us, nurture us and gives us Life.  I pray for all the finned ones and creatures of the sea.

I am in so much gratitude for the healing waters that bless us, quenches our thirst and purifies our bodies. 


I am blessed and I am grateful.


I turn to the North and remember all those who have walked on...whose Spirits are behind the veil and guiding us from the world beyond. I give thanks for the songs, for the blessings they left behind as wisdom for living our lives in a good way..

In the Present as a gift from Creator.

I am grateful for the silence of nature and the invitation to "go within"...

For holy darkness to connect to the Great Mysteries.  

I am thankful for the moments of insight...reflection and the opportunities to "Listen".


I look upward towards the Heavens and the Cosmos, remembering that we are all cooling sacks of stars, here on earth for a purpose and cause.  

I give thanks to the planetary bodies, 

to Grandmother Moon and the Milky Way.  

Grateful for the matrix of life and my place in it.


I look down to my feet as it stands on Mother Earth

Feeling the energy of the sacred.  

I am grateful for all She gives to us 

I am thankful for my ancestors..for their DNA and for whose shoulders I stand upon.  

I am grateful to this place, I call home on Turtle island and for all the beauty that surround me.

I am blessed.

I touch my Heart, as I stand in the center of my own hoop, grateful for all that is...

Grateful for this Precious Life

Thankful for the Ancestors looking this way.

I feel especially grateful today for all First Nation people across Turtle Island for paving the way for all of us who live here on Sacred earth.  Pilamaya.


 Mitakuye Oyasin... (we are all related)......blessed be.   

 

Olivia Marie

 

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