Friday, September 29, 2017

Pema Chödrön: A Wholehearted Journey of Gentle Honesty

For me, this is indeed a lifelong journey, this humbling and blessed journey of waking up from the illusions I mistook for reality and that we all get swept up in as part of being human. And this is also, I believe, the Great Awakening that is growing on Earth today. Molly


The ground of not causing harm is mindfulness, a sense of clear seeing with respect and compassion for what it is we see. This is what basic practice shows us. But mindfulness doesn’t stop with formal meditation. It helps us relate with all the details of our lives. It helps us see and hear and smell, without closing our eyes or our ears or our noses. It’s a lifetime’s journey to relate honestly to the immediacy of our experience and to respect ourselves enough not to judge it. As we become more wholehearted in this journey of gentle honesty, it comes as quite a shock to realize how much we’ve blinded ourselves to some of the ways in which we cause harm. Our style is so ingrained that we can’t hear when people try to tell us, either kindly or rudely, that maybe we’re causing some harm by the way we are or the way we relate with others. We’ve become so used to the way we do things that somehow we think that others are used to it too. It’s painful to face how we harm others, and it takes a while.

 ― Pema Chödrön,  
From When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice 
for Difficult Times
 

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